• Good Boundaries and Goodbyes

  • Loving Others Without Losing the Best of Who You Are
  • By: Lysa TerKeurst
  • Narrated by: Lysa TerKeurst, Jim Cress
  • Length: 7 hrs and 27 mins
  • 4.9 out of 5 stars (1,218 ratings)

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Good Boundaries and Goodbyes

By: Lysa TerKeurst
Narrated by: Lysa TerKeurst, Jim Cress
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2024 ECPA CHRISTIAN BOOK AWARD - AUDIOBOOK OF THE YEAR

READ BY THE AUTHOR

Relationships are wonderful . . . until they're not.

Stop the dysfunction of unhealthy relationships and learn biblical ways to set boundaries--and, when necessary, say goodbye.

Is it unloving or selfish to set a boundary with family members or friends? Are Christians ever called to walk away from a relationship that’s no longer safe or sustainable? #1 New York Times bestselling author Lysa TerKeurst deeply understands these hard questions in the midst of relational struggles.

After thousands of hours of counseling intensives and extensive theological research that transformed the way she defined healthy relationships, Lysa is now more committed than ever to loving people well without losing the best of who she is.

In these pages, Lysa will help you:

  • Understand the five factors to remember when implementing healthy boundaries.
  • Determine the appropriate amount of personal and emotional access someone has to you.
  • Stop being misled and emotionally paralyzed by wrongly interpreted or weaponized Bible verses that perpetuate unhealthy relationships.
  • Be equipped with effective boundary-setting tools, such as realistic scripts and practical strategies for healthier communication.
  • Be empowered to say goodbye without guilt when a relationship has shifted from difficult to destructive.
  • Receive therapeutic wisdom you can trust directly from Lysa’s Christian counselor Jim Cress, who weighs in throughout the book.

You'll be relieved to learn that boundaries aren't just a good idea, they're a God idea.

Look for additional biblically based resources and devotionals from Lysa:

  • Forgiving What You Can't Forget
  • It's Not Supposed to Be This Way
  • Uninvited
  • You're Going to Make It
  • Embraced
  • Seeing Beautiful Again

PLEASE NOTE: When you purchase this title, the accompanying PDF will be available in your Audible Library along with the audio.

©2022 Lysa TerKeurst (P)2022 Thomas Nelson

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Lysa Terkeurst is a Christian author who assists Christians in setting Biblical boundaries. Jim Cress is a Christian counselor who helps Christians with healing, showing them that doing so is biblical,.

I couldn’t imagine that Amazon would permit others to leave negative reviews because a religious author wrote a religious book if any the religion was anything other than Christianity.

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If struggling in a relationship where you need changes to happen to feel safe and happy but struggle to set and keep boundaries but also have fear of losing the relationship if you do, tard this book. It explains the purpose of boundaries, how to set them, and how to get needs met when they are not met from where you expect them.

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Spoke to me.

This book was definitely written just for me. Excellent storytelling and open to max. She lets everything out of the bag.

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Best title & best book!

I have struggled with good boundaries and goodbyes for so many years. Through a wonderful counselor and friend, I learned a lot and began setting healthy boundaries in my life. Talk about hard. This book is next level. I now have a much better grasp of why we need them, how to set them, and when boundaries aren’t enough. Thank you so much for allowing the pain in your life to be used by God to help others! I love how God can use our pain for a purpose!

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Stand tall in God’s amazing light, grace and love

I like the raw openness of recognizing the realities of being trapped by self and others and to face it and learn good boundaries are set and sent from God to help each of us walk in the light of his truth and love.

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Better than other boundry books

I appreciate her coming from a standpoint of "I am still learning too" instead of most books where the attitude is "I have already arrived" It was very informative on a personal level. I definitely recommend

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Amazing!

This book was so inspiring, encouraging and helpful. Seeking God’s direction at every corner. Boundaries aren’t just a good thing, they’re a God thing! I love it!

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Must read/ listen!!

Healing and insightful! Everyone wanting to thrive in relationships and remain true to themselves must purchase and apply the principles it contains.

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A great book when you are struggling!

This book has been wonderful to help
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Timely message

This book spoke to me in many ways. Such a good read and highly recommend to anyone who struggles with setting boundaries.

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