• Communicate Your Feelings (Without Starting a Fight)

  • What to Say and What Not to Say to Your Partner
  • By: Nic Saluppo
  • Narrated by: Colin Kibler
  • Length: 2 hrs and 20 mins
  • 4.8 out of 5 stars (496 ratings)

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Communicate Your Feelings (Without Starting a Fight)

By: Nic Saluppo
Narrated by: Colin Kibler
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When trying to share your feelings, does it end up in a fight more times than not? Do you want constructive discussions with your partner that lead to deeper connection and a healthier relationship?

Most of us never learned how to effectively share our feelings or receive the feelings of our partner. The good news is that it’s a skill you can learn.

Being in a relationship without knowing how to share your feelings and receive your partner’s feelings in useful ways is like jumping into a pool without knowing how to swim. You can flail around all you want, but it’s not going to keep you afloat for very long—you need to be able to move in any direction at will.

Like swimming, knowing how to share your feelings and respond to your partner's feelings will move your relationship in the direction you want: toward more intimacy, closeness, connection, and trust.

In Communicate Your Feelings (Without Starting a Fight), you’ll get:

  • Ways to avoid escalation so you can be unafraid of a discussion spinning out of control
  • The happiness and assurance that comes with knowing your relationship is heading in the right direction
  • Ways to respond to your partner’s feelings so you can gain their trust once again
  • 13 communication techniques so you can be confident approaching discussions with your partner
  • Ways to clarify your thoughts and feelings, increasing the likelihood that your partner will understand you

Now is the time to have a happier relationship, so begin applying these techniques today.

©2020 Nic Saluppo (P)2020 Nic Saluppo

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Condensed but packed with meat.

Excellent stuff to apply daily. The work never ends. Continual. Make it a new habit.

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Great book

Great insights in relationships and best means to communicate effectively without the fight !!
A easy book to listen too with your partner !

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Awesome book excellent resource

This is an excellent book I must have and read it is extremely well presented and the material is easy to follow and incorporate into your daily life. I must read!

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Very helpful

Very helpful, insightful and right on target in growing healthy relationships which doesn’t just happen, and must be tended to like a garden, including weeding out those things that choke the life out of the good things. The only comparison not a fan of was with the term “evolution.”

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great first read for starting to help myself!

loved this book. so easy to listen to. Just hoping i can remember all these new ways of being a better communicator with my spouse and family. great read! finished it quicker than expected!

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I really enjoyed reading this book

I really enjoyed reading this book. Makes me want to read more books from this author

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Eye Opening

I found this book to be surprisingly simple but eye opening. The smallest but sincere changes in how you express your thoughts to a partner can make a huge difference and upon listening seems so obvious. We get so used to the way we can easily word something the wrong way in trying to explain our frustration that just escalates a situation we’re trying to diffuse.

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THIS BOOK WAS AMAZING!

I am a relationship coach, and as someone who has read A LOT of books this was FANTASTIC! AND SUPER EASY TO UNDERSTAND, HE HAS SUCH A WAY OF WRITING OMG! AND I LOVE HOW SHORT AND YET POWERFUL IT IS.

ALSO THE PERFORMANCE OF THE READER WAS AMAZING, IVE BEEN LISTENING TO THIS BOOK OVER AND OVER AGAIN FOR 2 WEEKS NOW. AND I AM GETTING EVEN MORE GEMS FROM IT.... GET THE BOOK.

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It changed my life

I’ve had more success communication after reading this book. (Does not mean all old relationships are going to come back.)

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Very useful with real life examples

I found this book to be very direct and helpful in dealing with specific communication snags. With a few simple techniques we can improve our important relationships.

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