The Psychology of Likability and Politeness as Social Control

In this episode of PsyberSpace, host Leslie Poston explores the intricate and often controversial dynamics of likability, politeness, and professionalism. Focusing on their roles as tools of control, the episode delves into how these constructs influence power dynamics across race, gender, and age, particularly in the American context. Various studies and research are highlighted, examining how societal norms perpetuate biases and inequalities, impacting minority groups and women disproportionately. The episode also discusses the psychological aspects of these social expectations and their pervasive influence on personal and professional lives. Strategies for challenging and redefining these norms to foster inclusivity and diversity are explored, encouraging a reevaluation of how likability and professionalism are judged.

00:00 Introduction to Social Power Dynamics

01:41 The Psychology of Likability and Control

02:50 Politeness and Professionalism as Tools of Control

04:59 Whiteness and the Need for Approval

07:47 Generational and Gender Dynamics

11:28 Consequences of Non-Conformity

15:58 Breaking Free from Social Constraints

18:27 Conclusion and Further Reading

This episode of Psyber.Space hosted by Leslie Poston looks into the profound impact of music on the brain, exploring how it boosts cognitive function, aids in neurological therapy, and enhances overall brain health. Notable insights include the work of neurologist Oliver Sacks, the concept of the Mozart Effect, and the therapeutic uses of music for conditions such as ADHD and dementia. The discussion also highlights various studies and expert opinions on the subject, offering listeners practical ways to incorporate music into their lives for mental and emotional well-being.

00:00 Introduction to Music and the Brain
00:40 Music's Therapeutic Roles
01:13 Cognitive Benefits in Healthy Individuals
02:11 Music's Effects Across Different Genres
02:52 Mechanisms Behind Music's Power
03:28 Long-term Cognitive Benefits of Playing Music
03:52 Music and Brain Rehabilitation
04:17 Music in Teams and Workplaces
04:50 Music's Promise in Treating Disorders
06:34 The OPERA Hypothesis and Neurologic Music Therapy
07:50 Practical Tips for Using Music to Boost Brain Health
08:30 Conclusions and Final Thoughts

Close Connections: Exploring Parasocial Relationships on TikTok

Exploring parasocial relationships on TikTok and the psychological dynamics behind them, focusing on the unique aspects of TikTok that intensify one-sided bonds.

00:00 Introduction to Parasocial Relationships
01:12 Evolution of Parasocial Relationships with Technology
02:28 Psychological Appeal of Parasocial Relationships
03:28 Impact of Different Social Media Platforms on Parasocial Relationships
04:50 Visual Nature of Parasocial Relationships on Instagram and YouTube
05:43 Intensification of Parasocial Relationships on TikTok
07:59 TikTok's Role in Personal Transformation and Discovery
10:47 Creating Community and Awareness on TikTok
11:44 Transformative Potential of TikTok Content