A Courtly History: Romance in the 19th Century

By: Stephanie Insley Hershinow, The Great Courses

Narrated by: Stephanie Insley Hershinow

Length: 2 hrs and 46 mins

Publisher's summary

The rituals and pageantry of courtship in the 19th century can seem foreign to us today. Some of us may look back and see a more romantic age, while others will see a minefield of strict rules and stuffy protocol. Either way you look at it, it was worlds away from what dating is in the 21st century.

From coming-out parties and neighborhood balls to the rules of letter writing and marriage proposals, there were a lot of etiquette rules to observe if you wanted to find love—and, even more important, to secure your future through marriage. Novels like Pride and Prejudice and period dramas like Bridgerton may give us glimpses into the nature of 19th-century romance, but what about the fuller historical and social context? In the six lessons of A Courtly History: Romance in the 19th Century, Professor Stephanie Insley Hershinow gives you a detailed look at the complex and ever-evolving rules of romance in 19th-century Britain. Along the way, you will see why this fascinating era keeps drawing us back to novels and Netflix.

The conventions of romance—from first introductions to wedding vows—were highly formalized and carefully structured, increasingly so as the 19th century wore on. These rituals, particularly as they are portrayed in novels and film, have shaped our conceptions of romance, offering a very different experience from our modern reality. At the same time, there were other options beyond traditional love and marriage, which Professor Hershinow highlights in the lives of famous figures like Jane Austen, Lord Byron, and Emily Dickinson. As you will see, despite how different the past may feel, the search for love and happiness is remarkably timeless.

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18th Century Romance Literature. But Accessible.

Professor Hershinow provides what may be the most accessible window to 18th century English literature. One doesn’t need to be a Bridgerton fan to appreciate the romantic lives of 18th century nobility.

Fascinating

This was a fascinating book. Hershinow takes the reader through courtship and marriage in the nineteenth century, drawing on famous romances from the period to set the scene, but then filling in the cracks to show how the customs actually played out. It’s focused on the wealthier part of the country because that is where the surviving documents are and it’s fascinating. If you’ve ever enjoyed a Jane Austen novel, you really should treat yourself to this book.

Well researched

I wasn’t expecting much but this is quite good. Every part of it deserves an A.

Pretty basic but interesting

I don’t really feel like I learned anything new because if you’re read many historical romances you already know everything that is said on this book. Nevertheless I found it interesting though basic and has good narration. I would have wanted to learn more about marital life, expectations at home, intimacy, infidelity and other things that go beyond what every historical romance book covers.

So much fun!

For someone who loves Victorian and Regency history this is a delightful feast of information and stories, well performed and fascinating!

More Please!

Such a wonderful little immersion into Regency era romance and relationships. The author is very pleasant to listen to, and teleports you to another time with factual details that are both interesting and engaging. I loved this and would’ve loved to learn more!

Very interesting!

I loved how historical facts were woven into stories to make the information even more interesting.

very good!

I really enjoyed learning about romance and how things were done in the 19th century, I learned a lot.

Unfortunately a skip

This audiobook Immediately opens with a repeated audio clip, which nearly made me quit this book. But then I kept noticing little historic details that didn’t seem true. And well, yep, that’s because it really wasn’t true. Maybe a fact checker should have been involved.

Boring

sing song author's voice was more than I could take. somehow the author managed to take an interesting subject matter and make it completely boring and coupled with the narrator I just couldn't listen anymore